Comparing types
ENFJ
vs ENFJ
Compassionate facilitator
ISTP
Logical pragmatist
Strengths
ENFJ wants
- Inspiring others to cooperate and join in with group activities
- Creating a clear structure that respects the roles of everybody involved
ISTP gives
- Remaining calm and objective, even in difficult situations
- Responding quickly and practically to change
Stretches
ENFJ wants
- Avoiding conflict in their attempts to maintain harmony
- An overly trusting and idealistic nature when it comes to other people’s motives
ISTP gives
- Focusing too much on immediate solutions at the expense of long-term strategy
- Neglecting other people’s feelings in their efforts to solve logical problems
Likes
ENFJ wants
- Creating harmony
- Organizing the world according to their values
- Noticing and responding to the needs of others
ISTP gives
- Analyzing problems to find quick solutions
- Organizing their thoughts to create logical systems
- Seeking objective truth
Working together
ENFJ wants
- Praise and encouragement
- Harmony
- A safe environment to share and express their feelings
ISTP gives
- A calm response to a crisis
- A logical approach to practical problems
- Insight to help others see why their approach isn’t working